Self-pity People

I'm not sure if you're come across people in your lives that are self-pity? I just found out a few today. Really sad!

It's so disappointing when i found out about these people. People who are capable to work but may not be the most top having to push other people around them down in order to be seen. This is really pitiful! 

They would spend most of their times convincing each other (the alike types of people) to build a bigger force and spend their time gossiping and complaining away about other people so that they will feel better. Especially when they agree with each other (same comfort sentences). 

I wouldn't say that self-pity is a bad trait (at least they know what they're lacking in, and they should continue to pursue what they couldn't have). But its really unhealthy to wanting to build bigger forces and ruin relationships and friendships as they go on. 

Its really sad if they're in your workforce. I'm glad I've made the right move, really disappointing! :(